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What are some general online safety tips when it comes to online dating?
Online Safety
• Choose an username that describes yourself and that will help you find the type of person you're looking for
• Do not give out your social security number, telephone number, email, home or office address
• Telephone. Use a pay phone, use caller ID blocking, don't call collect. Use a pager or a device that accepts pages
• Do not give any specific information about where you live, where you work, landmarks by your home or office
• Ask questions. If someone avoids answering your questions, avoid them
• Be suspicious of those who want to know too much
• If someone says something that makes you feel uncomfortable, avoid them
• If someone sends or shows you anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, avoid them
• Don't let people online trick you into thinking of them as real life friends if you've never met them in person
• Be honest about your age. Membership rules are there to protect people
• When it comes to online memberships, if you are too young to sign up, do not lie about your age
• If you're too young to join a website, talk with your parents about alternate sites that are appropriate for you
Online dating is steadily growing as time goes on. It's inevitable that people will want to meet each other in real life. Making plans to meet people off the internet in real life is usually a bad idea. If you decide to go on a date anyway:
Local Date
• If you go out on a date, have a way there and back under your own power
• Tell friends and family members who you're seeing
• Tell friends and family members where you are going for the date
• Know what the plans are for the date ahead of time
• Meet in a public place
• Stay in a public place
• Keep your personal belongings with you or within your sight at all times
• Drink only non-alcoholic beverages while on your date
• Do not leave your beverage unattended. If you do, replace it
Long Distance or Travel
• Do not plan to stay at the other person's home
• Use a hotel or motel while visiting
• Do not tell them where the hotel is. Keep your room secret
• Know what the plans are for the visit ahead of time
• Use a taxi throughout your stay for transportation
• Have scheduled calls to family and friends. A cell phone comes in handy for this
• Make sure your cell phone is fully charged before the start of the date
• Have a plan in affect what to do if you do not meet scheduled calls
• Use the hotel or motel's safe to store your valuables
• Do not leave valuables out in the open
Online Safety
• Choose an username that describes yourself and that will help you find the type of person you're looking for
• Do not give out your social security number, telephone number, email, home or office address
• Telephone. Use a pay phone, use caller ID blocking, don't call collect. Use a pager or a device that accepts pages
• Do not give any specific information about where you live, where you work, landmarks by your home or office
• Ask questions. If someone avoids answering your questions, avoid them
• Be suspicious of those who want to know too much
• If someone says something that makes you feel uncomfortable, avoid them
• If someone sends or shows you anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, avoid them
• Don't let people online trick you into thinking of them as real life friends if you've never met them in person
• Be honest about your age. Membership rules are there to protect people
• When it comes to online memberships, if you are too young to sign up, do not lie about your age
• If you're too young to join a website, talk with your parents about alternate sites that are appropriate for you
Online dating is steadily growing as time goes on. It's inevitable that people will want to meet each other in real life. Making plans to meet people off the internet in real life is usually a bad idea. If you decide to go on a date anyway:
Local Date
• If you go out on a date, have a way there and back under your own power
• Tell friends and family members who you're seeing
• Tell friends and family members where you are going for the date
• Know what the plans are for the date ahead of time
• Meet in a public place
• Stay in a public place
• Keep your personal belongings with you or within your sight at all times
• Drink only non-alcoholic beverages while on your date
• Do not leave your beverage unattended. If you do, replace it
Long Distance or Travel
• Do not plan to stay at the other person's home
• Use a hotel or motel while visiting
• Do not tell them where the hotel is. Keep your room secret
• Know what the plans are for the visit ahead of time
• Use a taxi throughout your stay for transportation
• Have scheduled calls to family and friends. A cell phone comes in handy for this
• Make sure your cell phone is fully charged before the start of the date
• Have a plan in affect what to do if you do not meet scheduled calls
• Use the hotel or motel's safe to store your valuables
• Do not leave valuables out in the open